2019

STD Testing

November 30, 2019 · Personal · Fiction About True Stuff · Substack · essay
So we kinda had the talk / Me and my newish girlfriend / We’d been friends for years / But only lovers for a few months / It felt silly / We were…

22 hand-picked live music events where you can lindyhop this Thursday,...

November 23, 2019 · Facebook · Lindyhop
Friday, Saturday, and Sunday in the Bay Area. Do you have an excuse for not dancing? If so, this ain't it. Full calendar: https: / bit.ly/sflindycal

With his permission, sharing the wise words of my new friend and mentor,...

October 25, 2019 · Facebook
Master Luke Kilpatrick

Madeline and I lindyhopped away our blues to the...

October 20, 2019 · Facebook · Parenting · travel
Crescent City Maulers' first set at Swing 46 Jazz And Supper Club in New York City - Manhattan - Nyc last night. As we were leaving, the entire club…

My beloved 96-year-old grandmother Antoinette "Nellie" DiBona passed away on...

October 19, 2019 · Facebook · Parenting
Monday surrounded by family members and loved ones. Tomorrow, we will lay her to rest beside my grandfather in Staten Island. Grandma Nellie…

If you plan carefully and show a little hustle, it might be possible to beat...

October 18, 2019 · Facebook
the record Deborah and I set by dancing at SEVEN live shows tonight. Don't forget about KnoWhere! Their schedule isn't publicized, but they've been…

When you walk into a wine bar in San Francisco, they're playing swing music,...

October 3, 2019 · Facebook · wine
and THIS TIME, the bartender turns out to be a baller lindyhopper. (What is it, exactly, with me, wine bars, and swing music?)

Burratta caprese, rigatoni e polpette, rosé poached pears, and a key lime...

September 30, 2019 · Facebook · Cucina Mia · Parenting
pie with marshmallow cream meringue from Madeline. My dear friend Natalie supplied the tomatoes, Anaheim chillis, and pears from her garden/orchard.…

No dancers at the Jellyroll People in Plazas lunchtime show today.No dancers...

September 10, 2019 · Facebook
No dancers at the Jellyroll People in Plazas lunchtime show today.

Sometimes even the worst dad jokes get a laugh (and an IG story)

September 1, 2019 · Facebook · Parenting

The bartender scowled at us and had a really bad attitude. I guess I forgot...

August 24, 2019 · Facebook
that I was there to serve her and not the other way around.

Maddy’s working on a new uke arrangement for ImagineMaddy’s...

August 23, 2019 · Facebook · Parenting
Click for video:Maddy’s working on a new uke arrangement for ImagineMaddy’s working on a new uke arrangement for Imagine

Hiya! My lindyhopper friend Diana Lopez might be in Oahu in the next few...

August 9, 2019 · Facebook
days. Could you give her the royal treatment like you did for me and Sara? ;-)

Our 4-track cover of Someone You Loved by Lewis Capaldi

August 5, 2019 · Facebook · Parenting
Click for video:Our 4-track cover of Someone You Loved by Lewis Capaldi / Maddy: vocals and ukulele / Me: vocals and pianoOur 4-track cover of…

Here I come to save the day!

July 30, 2019 · Facebook

I don’t like doing dishes

July 10, 2019 · Facebook
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Shiiiiiiiiit, woke up in Boston

June 22, 2019 · Facebook

Let It Be

June 21, 2019 · Facebook

After being laid up with a stomach bug, I was finally feeling well enough...

June 17, 2019 · Facebook · Parenting
just in time to do something for Father’s Day. @_madeline_b_123 and I hit Jinx Jones and the Kingtones and Circus Bella at the 65th annual North…

Does Cat's Corner and/or Swedish American have any age restrictions? (I am...

June 13, 2019 · Facebook
the parent of the only 13-year-old lindyhopper in San Francisco.)

Goat deployment near @_madeline_b_123’s. (Fire safety is...

June 11, 2019 · Facebook
Click for video:Goat deployment near @_madeline_b_123’s. (Fire safety is good; ASMR is an added bonus.)

I've known since my early 20s, so this is long overdue. In honor of Pride...

June 6, 2019 · Highlights · Facebook
Month and my 43rd birthday, I'm coming out as bisexual. For twenty years I've been an "invisible queer." And not just because I hadn't told very many…

Thanks Autumn for capturing this great...

June 5, 2019 · Facebook
Click for video:Thanks Autumn for capturing this great video of me and Natalie Gould dancing to the Alpha Rhythm Kings at Local Edition!Thanks Autumn…

First visit to Port Costa....

June 2, 2019 · Facebook
From Jun 2, 2019, 1:30 PM to Aug 25, 2019, 5:30 PMFirst visit to Port Costa. What a wonderful, charming time capsule!

Some photos from Ragtime, The Musical at 142 Throckmorton Theatre. The...

May 11, 2019 · Facebook
audience response to opening night was unbelievable! Sadly, this show—about racial injustice, immigration, and the flaws in our criminal justice…

Backstage at dress rehearsal for Ragtime. 21 piece...

May 9, 2019 · Facebook · music
Click for video:Backstage at dress rehearsal for Ragtime. 21 piece orchestra!

I’ll be playing the role of

April 29, 2019 · Facebook
JP Morgan in this epic musical at the Throckmorton Theatre. We open on May 10th with nine performances. Tickets here: http: /…

Ragtime rehearsal. Poor young rich boy

April 8, 2019 · Facebook
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You’re gonna have to be just a tad more literate to scam me, brahYou’re...

April 1, 2019 · Facebook
You’re gonna have to be just a tad more literate to scam me, brah

Ragtime rehearsal day 3. The prologue is starting to come...

March 29, 2019 · Facebook
Click for video:Ragtime rehearsal day 3. The prologue is starting to come together.

#twinning with W.B. Mason

March 22, 2019 · Facebook · #twinning

I'll be attending this...

March 22, 2019 · Facebook
From Mar 22, 2019, 9:00 PM to Mar 23, 2019, 12:30 AMI'll be attending this with Anouk Chipault Le Guennec who is a terrific lindyhopper visiting from…

#obey

March 17, 2019 · Facebook · #obey

Where in LA should I dance on Saturday night

March 15, 2019 · Facebook

I've been given the role of J.P. Morgan in an upcoming production of...

March 15, 2019 · Facebook
Ragtime, The Musical with the Throckmorton Theatre Company in Mill Valley. This will be my first musical and I'm thrilled to be a part of the pro-am…

Your options for Lindyhopping to LIVE music this week in San Francisco. Did...

March 11, 2019 · Facebook
Joaquin and I miss anything? If you want to subscribe to the calendar: http: / bit.ly/sflindycal

Almuerza #SwingBreakMexico

March 8, 2019 · Facebook · #swingbreakmexico

First tango class in 20 years!

February 23, 2019 · Facebook

Because our Relationship was Perfect

February 15, 2019 · Personal · Fiction About True Stuff · Substack · Parenting · essay
She told me it was over / Not even twelve hours ago / So I’m cleaning my apartment / Like a man on a mission / Because maybe it makes me feel better…

How I talk to my friends

February 9, 2019 · Facebook

San Francisco has 16(!) swing/lindyhop dance events with live bands this...

January 31, 2019 · Facebook · Lindyhop
week that Joaquin and I are tracking on our calendar. To help support our amazing live music scene and see that it continues, please tip the bands at…

Art of the Deal: craft a proposal that EVERYONE hates

January 20, 2019 · Facebook

More water more better!

January 19, 2019 · Facebook

I wasn’t going to jump on this trend until I found this. Senior Prom, 1994.I...

January 14, 2019 · Facebook
I wasn’t going to jump on this trend until I found this. Senior Prom, 1994.

Pops and the Acrosonics at The Red Brick in Petaluma #lindyhop #marin...

January 13, 2019 · Facebook · #northbay · #lindyhop · #marin · Lindyhop
#northbay @ Red brick

New Years Eve Eve at the Del with this fantastic human @ Hotel del Coronado

January 1, 2019 · Facebook

2018

Dungeness crab melts on German pretzel rolls, Bar Harbor lobster bisque...

December 24, 2018 · Cucina Mia · Facebook
(thank you Dale Lucas!), linguini al vongole, and creamed red chard. We got to four of the seven fishes, an Italian Christmas Eve tradition. Can…

I've loved this concept...

December 22, 2018 · Facebook
From Dec 23, 2018, 7:00 PM to Dec 23, 2018, 10:00 PMI've loved this concept since back when the Kabuki had a bowling alley. Come!

Watch out for this guy! It's a fake Facebook profile that points to a fake...

December 10, 2018 · Facebook
LinkedIn and bunch of other fake artifacts that make it look real-ish. Normally, I would just recommend avoiding contact, but in this case, because…

For anyone who doesn’t already know, allow me to be abundantly clear: I’ve...

December 5, 2018 · Facebook · Parenting
been blessed with an amazing pint-sized human being in my life, my right-on-the-brink-of-teen daughter. I’ve been particularly impressed with her…